THE BEAR presents: IF ONLY I HAD KNOWN
Stories of Hindsight & Hard Truths
“Life can only be understood backwards…”
— Søren Kierkegaard
We all have that moment.
The one where we look back and think: If only I had known.
Known how hard it would be.
Known how beautiful it would become.
Known what we were really walking into.
This evening, our storytellers take us into the moments before they understood. Into choices made without a map. Into love without guarantees. Into mistakes, courage, naivety, and the quiet realizations that came later.
Because life doesn’t come with spoilers.
And sometimes the lesson only arrives after the story.
Join us for true, personal stories told live on stage — raw, funny, vulnerable, and deeply human.
🎤 Thinking about telling a story?
If you’d like a little feedback before putting your name in the legendary hat, send your story idea to our story coaching team at hello@thebear-storytelling.de.
And when you buy your ticket, please choose the Storyteller Ticket so we know how many brave souls may end up in the hat.
Sometimes wisdom comes late — but it makes for a great story.
📍 Event Details
Date: Thursday, 16 April 2026
Time: 19:00 (7:00 PM)
Venue: Theatre Pool | Boxhagener Straße 18, 3. Hinterhof, Berlin
Host: Ben McGuire | Music: TBA
🎟 Tickets & Community
Entry is by donation. Your generosity keeps our stage independent and open to all.
Recommended: 15–20 €
Give more if you can, less if you can’t. Everyone is welcome.
🐻 How it Works
This evening features a blend of curated stories (selected in advance) and our signature Open Stage.
Want to tell a story? Put your name in the hat! We’ll draw names randomly throughout the night. If you’re a newcomer, don’t worry—we love first-time voices and offer supportive coaching to help you find your hook.
Audience Question: Tell us about a moment when you later thought: “If only I had known.”
Meet Your Show Host
Ben McGuire
Show host Ben McGuire on stage at THE BEAR.
A passionate believer in the ferocious power of story, Ben McGuire is a lawyer, writer, documentary filmmaker, and photographer. He is yet to find a better compass than story to help us find true north and to celebrate the joys and quirks of life along the way.
After a decade of storytelling on stages and at festivals across Europe, a two volume audiobook collection of his stories will be released to celebrate THE BEAR`s 100th show: How to Jump a Fence – True Stories, Told Live (Volume I) will be released in late 2025 and The Werewolf and the Weakling – True Stories, Told Live (Volume II) will follow in 2026.
Twice a year Ben leads groups of intrepid travellers on a unique adventure into one of the most storied landscapes on earth - the Sinai desert in Egypt - with Nomads of the Heart.
Meet Your Musician
James Harper
James Harper making magic wtih his award-winning podcast Filter Stories.
is the creator of award-nominated podcast Filter Stories, a show that uses our morning coffee as a lens to understand the world. His narratives explore history, science and sustainability, and he writes the piano music that underscore the stories.
His podcasts have been heard hundreds of thousands of times, and he has produced narrative podcasts for a wide array of clients, including Porsche (Driven Minds), Duolingo (Spanish Podcast), World Coffee Portal (5THWAVE), Specialty Coffee Association (World Coffee Championships), and others.
Growing up half Italian in Sydney, he’s lived in Hong Kong and Rome and began his career working for the Bank of England in 2009. However, his passion for coffee was simply too strong to resist, and in 2016 moved to Berlin to become The Barn Coffee Roaster’s Wholesale Manager, and then in early 2018 hopped on a flight to Guatemala to dive deeper into the world of specialty coffee as a documentary podcast producer.
When he is not traveling around the world, James generously accompanies storytellers at THE BEAR adding another delicious layer to our evening.
THE BEAR presents is made possible by the generous performances of our storytellers, our team of volunteers, and the “Verein zur Förderung der Kunst des biographischen Geschichtenerzählens e.V.” .
Special thanks to our partners Berlin Erleben on Youtube and the public speaking training companies Moving Speaker, Female Speaking Berlin as well as Unmaking Boxes, Sales Chakra and Theatre Pool.
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If you miss this show, you can have front row seats to beautiful stories made by THE BEAR with love wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts and on our Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thebear.truestories.berlin
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Stories connect us.
Because we all have stories to tell.
Please support our mission to bring compassion into our communities through the Art of Autobiographical Storytelling.
We thank you for your generosity.
Verein zur Förderung der Kunst des biographischen Geschichtenerzählens e.V.
IBAN: DE25 8306 5408 0005 2236 28
Or you can buy the team some cups of coffee for those long nights… Thank you.